Would it be wrong to put up a money tree at a friends bridal shower to help pay for the bacholorette

I am in my friends wedding. The other bridesmaids and I want to take the Bacholorette party to a Spa then a club. It's going cost about $107 per person. We get manicures, pedicures, then a shampoo, blow dry and style for our hair, plus 4 hours of limo service. I know we can afford this, but I'm not sure some of the people invited can, being they are still in college and such. Would it be wrong to put up a money tree at her bridal shower to help offset the cost for some of the younger girls?

Would it be wrong to put up a money tree at a friends bridal shower to help pay for the bacholorette party?

Yeah it's just wrong.

Would it be wrong to put up a money tree at a friends bridal shower to help pay for the bacholorette party?

yes it is wrong, if all the girls cant afford it, you fork out the costs or change your plans or they cant come, but DO NOT ask for money

Would it be wrong to put up a money tree at a friends bridal shower to help pay for the bacholorette party?

i personally would not do it. people attending the bridal shower have already come bearing gifts, they might take it offensively if you ask for more. take into consideration also that maybe the people attending the wedding cant afford much either, and along with the shower gift is the wedding gift and also what they are going to be wearing to the wedding.

Would it be wrong to put up a money tree at a friends bridal shower to help pay for the bacholorette party?

That would be the height of tacky. If the people invited to the bachelorette party cannot afford the cost, then they will have to decline.

Not only that, but you are asking people who will not be attending the bach. party (is her grandma going?) to pay for it. I would totally resent someone doing that at a party I was attending.

Would it be wrong to put up a money tree at a friends bridal shower to help pay for the bacholorette party?

If your concerned about costs then why not cut the spa part out and everyone do each others hair and make-up at someones house then rent a limo to take you out to the clubs for 4 hours.

The 107 a person does not incude drinks at the clubs which in my experience is the bulk cost of the bachelorette party. I would e-mail everyone and see how much they are planning on spending on the bachelorette party, get a total from all of the girls and then see what you can do.

If the younger girls are under 18 or 21 (depending on the club, they might not be able to get in)

The main thing is that you don't want to embarass someone because they can't afford to pay for an all out full girls day and night. You might be able to talk to all the girls and see if everyone even wants to go? tell them the estimated cost of 107 a person plus drinks and let it be thier option. Give them a week or so to get things together and talk to thier parents and then ask who is in and who is out so you can tell the limo company and the spa.

If more people are out then in then maybe just you and the bride can go to the spa and then meet them all for the party to begin and go out to the club.

But the tree at that bridal shower is a big NO NO. You signed up to be a bridesmaid and as a bridesmaid you agreed to finance your part of the bachelorette party. So did all of the other bridesmaids but, you have to keep it within EVERYONES price range it's only fair.

Would it be wrong to put up a money tree at a friends bridal shower to help pay for the bacholorette party?

Yes. The people who are at the bridal shower are not going to the bacholorette party why should they have to pay for it. If I was at a shower and they wanted money I would be insulted. If they can't afford it then maybe you should think of something else to do or try and find a way to cut the cost. Maybe you don't have to use a limo or find a different spa.

Good Luck and have fun with the wedding.

Would it be wrong to put up a money tree at a friends bridal shower to help pay for the bacholorette party?

Each person should pay their own way and chip in to pay for the cost of the bride.

Would it be wrong to put up a money tree at a friends bridal shower to help pay for the bacholorette party?

Yes it is wrong,the people that can pay should go.

Would it be wrong to put up a money tree at a friends bridal shower to help pay for the bacholorette party?

I got a money tree once for a gift, and I was absolutely turned off by it. I still get nightmares from it. its so tacky and tasteless. you will never hear the end of it.

Would it be wrong to put up a money tree at a friends bridal shower to help pay for the bacholorette party?

TACKY! Pick an activity that all the guests can afford. Don't beg for money.

Would it be wrong to put up a money tree at a friends bridal shower to help pay for the bacholorette party?

That's TOTALLY wrong, and frankly sad tht you would even think of that.

Downscale the plans for the bach. party.

Would it be wrong to put up a money tree at a friends bridal shower to help pay for the bacholorette party?

I really don't think you should do this. If the other girls can't afford the cost, either do something else or do that for the bridal party only and another bachelorette party to include the others. It sounds like a lot of fun but if people can't afford it, you should do something else.

Would it be wrong to put up a money tree at a friends bridal shower to help pay for the bacholorette party?

I would just ask everyone to pitch in who could to help. Ask who can afford this, and I am sure you will get an answer. If you wanted a money tree that would be ok.